How to Get Someone to Miss You
When distances—emotional or physical—grow between individuals, the desire to be missed can be compelling. Within the occult, there are esoteric techniques aimed at nurturing a sense of longing and missed connection in someone’s heart. These methods should be approached with sensitivity and respect, as they influence emotions and personal relationships.
Understanding the Energetic Ties
In the realm of the occult, all relationships are underpinned by invisible, energetic ties. These connections can be thought of as threads in a vast, interconnected web. By understanding and subtly influencing these threads, one can encourage feelings of longing and remembrance in someone from whom they are apart.
Visualization for Emotional Connection
Crafting Your Vision
Begin with a clear visualization. Sit in a quiet place where you can concentrate without interruption. Close your eyes and picture the person you want to miss you. Imagine a happy, shared moment from your past, focusing on the feelings of joy and connection you experienced.
Creating an Emotional Anchor
As you hold this image, imagine a beam of light that connects your heart to theirs—think of it as an energetic cord. Infuse this cord with all the positive emotions and memories you share. The goal is to reinforce the existing connection, making it vibrant and alive in their mind.
The Use of Herbs and Scents
Selecting the Right Herbs
Herbs such as rosemary are associated with remembrance in many folk traditions. Lavender can be used for calming and nurturing connections, while basil might be used to inspire general warmth and affection towards you.
Creating a Scented Talisman
Prepare a small cloth pouch and fill it with one or more of these herbs. Charge the pouch by holding it in your hands while visualizing your desired outcome. You might also add a personal item of yours inside the pouch to strengthen the personal connection. Keep the pouch under your pillow, carry it with you, or place it somewhere the person will frequently be, if possible.
Candle Magic to Ignite Memories
Choosing the Right Candle
Select a candle in a color that corresponds to your intention—pink for affection, yellow for friendship, or blue for healing emotional distance.
Setting Your Intention
As you light the candle, focus deeply on the flame. Picture the person’s face and visualize them feeling a gentle, pervasive sense of missing your presence. Speak your intentions aloud or silently, saying something like: “As this flame burns, so does your desire to feel our connection. May you feel the pull of our shared moments and find your thoughts returning to me.”
Letting the Candle Burn
Allow the candle to burn down completely in a safe place, releasing your intentions into the universe.
The Crafting of a Sigil
Designing Your Sigil
Create a sigil that represents your desire to be missed. This can be done by writing out your intention, reducing the sentence by removing repeated letters, and forming the remaining letters into a graphic symbol.
Activating the Sigil
Charge your sigil by focusing on it while holding the emotional state you wish to evoke in the other person. You might burn the sigil to send your wishes into the ether, or keep it somewhere they are likely to be, subtly influencing their subconscious.
Ethical Considerations
When performing any form of emotional magic, particularly one that affects how another person feels, ethical considerations must be at the forefront. These techniques are intended to enhance mutual understanding and affection, not to manipulate or coerce. Use these methods only with the highest respect for the other’s free will and emotional wellbeing.
Conclusion
Employing occult techniques to be missed involves subtle manipulation of emotional and energetic ties. By using visualization, herb and scent magic, candle rituals, and sigils, you can gently influence someone to feel a sense of longing. Always remember that the most powerful and ethical magic is based on genuine emotional connections and mutual respect.
